~Unsaid are the ones the child wants to hear “ARE YOU LISTENING?”~

Many parents are now a days mainly are more concern about the child’s academics. Expectation of them for the child to come first in the class or getting admission in the particular school. The list is long…
The parents wants the child do the best always in their studies or other extra curriculum activities. It is kind of building pressure on the children now a days. Doing the best is always not possible for the children.

More than the child’s interest, focus is on what the parent wants the child to do or learn.
Due to society pressure possibly.
Too many list of ” Should ” by parents leads to pressure on the child.
he/she should study well.
he/she should come first in class.
he/she should listen to me always.
he/she should not back answer.
he/she should learn this activity because someonelse is learning it could be neighbours or cousin etc…. so on…

When parents push too many things on the child, that’s when it backfires.
Parental positive push is needed for some positive growth in the child no doubt about it.
Go slow… need to limit your self with healthy parental support with prioritising 1 or 2 important things to begin with.
It will keep the child happier & which will lead to positive state of mind of the parents too.

*What will exactly happen ?
if they don’t do well in their academic studies or loose a year in academics.
*What will exactly happen?
if they don’t they don’t do well in sports ,dance & any activites.
What will exactly happen?
Anything can be learned and with practice, can be expertised.
With practice we can get better isn’t ?
Why are we in hurry now-a-days.
Where are we heading ?
What if the child takes time to understand ?
What if the child fails ?
It’s ok to fail. Its not big deal.

“Its ok to Fail,🤷
Someday greatly they will Sail.🚣
Attempt with all hard work in the Next,🏄
They will come out to be their version of Best”🏊

Give some space to the child.
Encourage them to re-learning & practice more.We can’t even imagine what they have stored in them. Let them explore and see the magic. Learn from the children there is so much for us to learn too. Observe the child’s interest and try to accordingly connect the child for the relevant activity or learning.

“The little ones still remember how to use the power of their imagination. They are still engaged in the utilization of their imagination — that is one of the reasons that keeps them so exhilarated.” ~Abraham~

Encourage them to participate again, Encourage them to cheer for others on their success.
Cheering for others is what we forget to teach the child from the very beginning.
We only tell them or focus on their achievement and expect and instruct the same .
The parent often forget to tell them about failures could be in any form ..what here i mean is in a positive way.
(example : I am sure you will do your best ‘We would be very happy for you’ But, remember even if for any reason u don’t..its ok we will still love you.)
(statement like participation is important . incase your friend wins cheer for them & congratulate them.)
It is often missed or unsaid.

Most important thing we missed making them learn to learn is built connection and empathize.

Encourage them to be creative, be expressive, to be in gratitude for everything and everyone around.

Enjoy simple things in life. Help them to learn to cook, eat together,organize their own space of books and toys, along with some simple crafts etc.

Make them also understand the value of money, saving money, money management and its important. Which the parents often forget is teaching them in the young age about money management.It is important too.

They learn and observe each and everything from the very tender age. Be the best example for them, If you want the best for them.

Expression of love through words is important too. They are always waiting to hear it from you.

“What i have learned so far is that,
I still have so much to learn “

Keep Learning…